Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

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Go buy 2 big cheap tupperware containers.

Toss all that stuff in it.

Place it in the basement or garage.

When he comes over. Tell him you packed it up already for him and tell him where the containers are.

Let him move them out.

You have already helped.

As for the mattress. Remove it. Say nothing. Do what you need to do to live in your house.

ITS YOUR HOUSE.

Remember removing stuff can be very therapeutic.

Exactly what I was going to say. He is still cake eating and he will never make up his mind about which way he will go while he has the best of both worlds - a beautiful, loving and caring wife, a new baby and bit on the side ....