Its been a nice week here with my kids. I spent a lot of time with them. That's what I do when my kids are with me. I don't pawn them off or get sitters like xw does. They are my priority. Its obvious they are not xw's. I think my kids really have enjoyed their time here too. They have the freedom to go off with their friends if they want, but it seems their friends like coming here. My D has been very chatty and we got to spend a lot of close time together. Its been nice.
An interesting event happened yesterday. I was in the car with my S13, D10, and a few of S's friends. The Tiger Woods event was brought up. I said that his wife tried killing him with a 9iron cause he cheated on his wife. Well, I got a lot of questions about this, especially from my daughter. I wonder if they were putting 2 and 2 together.
If you read above you saw that my xw called me an ass cause she didn't get what she wanted regarding the kids. Well a couple days later, the "nice" version of xw sent me a note about the parenting plan and asked for a few things in her favor. Of course she's nice when she wants something then calls me names when she doesn't get what she wants.she says she has accomodated all my requests. Well my last request, for her to stop showing up at my door unannounced, was met with a "screw you". I'm not going to do anything for her as long as om is alive. So, I will be called names again soon.I also think she's being dishonest about her plans for xmas with my kids. She's broken the parenting plan a couple times already and I can see the writing on the wall for xmas. She just has total disregard and disrespect for me. I may have to ask my L about this stuff.
Which leads me to OM. These two have been together off and on for almost 2 years.I think they are getting rather serious as he had no problem dishing off his kids to be with her this weekend. She also spurned her family over the holiday. I don't remember her ever doing that. Her family doesn't want anything to do with him. So, my question is, when are they going to blow up? I've seen some timelines on the existence of affairs, but, dang, this is making me nervous.
