If there are four words that are guaranteed to strike terror into any man, even the most hardened. Those words are "We need to talk" In my opinion they should be stricken from every woman's vocabulary on the planet. When a man hears those words this is what he understands: [list][*]You're in BIG TROUBLE mister and you're going to get it, now!
I am starting to see the importance of timing and wording and your post helps.