Help I want to call him

[Jstar]

Have you set any goals?

and

asked yourself how will you know he is doing little things to show you he is going towards those goals?

That way is is measurable by you and you can see the little things he does.

I've had no contact for 4 days, it's just the beginning of lrt and going dark even though we have non agreed to court counseling tuesday. even if he does not show it will not look good for him in the eyes of the court, he walked away from d2, me 7 mos pregnant high risk and not supporting us in any way. I think i'm doing good things. stress level is down.