Woke up early this morning and right away my brain focused on my situation. Part of my problem is that I think about this logically. By the end of the next decade the daughters will be 20 and 17 and we'll be basically releasing them to the world. The HARD WORK is the next 10 years -- making sure they navigate high school and all of its temptations -- and get to college.
There's no way, logically, that you want to do this alone or at different households where they can play one off the other.
Plus the finances -- there will be so much less opportunity.
But again as I was laying there thinking eventually this will seep through W's fog, I realized that logic has no bearing here. That I need to look at reality. And the reality is that W divorced me in her mind three years ago (end of 2006).
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
