OK... reason I was asking... most of that is... well... how can I put it... a bit superficial?

Here's a suggestion for you, try this one out for size (modify accordingly):
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Remember that article you mentioned earlier on? Well, it got me to thinking... <pregnant pause>
I can't remember the last time I told you this...
I admire and respect you for the man you are. Most men would have given up or avoided the issues we had with D18. Not you. You went above and beyond. In my eyes and in hers you're her Dad and a shining example for our sons. For that I'm forever grateful to you.
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Ahem... just saw your update... your daughter had to go and do something to steal the thunder! Arrrghh...


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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