I'm working on it BBJ. It is probably going to be several years of physical changes and mental exercises to get there but in the end I hope to feel better about myself in general. I can't really care what anyone else thinks of me anymore. That's just too much pressure and time constraints.
Those of you who have had to file bankruptcy after D, what kind of process is it? Approximately how much did it cost and were they able to discharge the debt or merely consolidate it? I am becoming more and more desperate to get it under control. To some people the amount doesn't sound extreme, but it's enough to keep me from being able to pay my household bills and still have any grocery money. I'd appreciate hearing your experiences.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!