Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[Jstar]

every fight we get into he runs home at the age of 29. he has never lived seperate from his parents, oh wait for one year he did during our first seperation, but he chose to rent a house 2 blocks from his parents since they would be over 3=5 times a day or him over at his moms 3=5 times a day.

he doesn't have any domestic responsibilites at his parents, no cooking, no cleaning, no laudry, he just says mom i'm hungry and she'll cook him something. we've spoke about this before, i said sounds like you want a wife that will have 6 kids, stay at home, be happy living in a dump, no future, no retirement, will be at your beck and call, just like mom. he would always say, no that's not what he wants, i'm the total opposite, i've worked my while life, served in military 13 years, a vet of 2 wars, master's degree steady job for over 10 years.

so could i find common ground with his parents? i think boundaries need to be set with them. h wants me to have a relationship with them, i need to have them not count on h for money, he needs to set them before i'm going to do anything.

as far as being dark, i'm doing it, gonna set a time limit by the court, we have our appointment tuesday, if he shows.