Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

Thanks for the Plan A info. We had an interesting talk this evening. He wants so much to move forward with the "move out" plans of one of us. I'm sure it will be him, because quite frankly, I cannot bear the thought of uprooting our kids after our daughter (age 8) finds out the truth. I did tell him that I love him (I haven't said that in a couple of months.) I will try to follow Plan A to a T. One of the hardest things for me is not touching him. I guess that's normal. I did get some cleaning done today. Our house is pretty clean but often cluttered because of all the junk I don't take time to sort thru. He is such a warm father to the kids, I just don't know how our daughter will survive when we drop the bomb on her after the holidays!! He is her hero!!