Help I want to call him

[Jstar]

i've been seperated from my h for over a month now and he used to tell me just let him be to deal with his anger, he wants to work things out, don't pressure me, etc etc. i did do all of that. on the times we did see each other they were strained and i could not hold in my disgust for his choices and behavior.

i gotta believe he is human with feelings, i hope anyways and has a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for walking away from d2, me pregnant. he won't seek out any help for dealing with any of his emotions and will just drink to ignore his feelings and keep saying [censored] the bitch, meaning me.

when he goes days sometimes weeks without visiitng with daughter, she is upset with him at the age of 2 so i can only imagine how ur daughter must be feeling.

bluerain is right that your h will not hear you at this time, if he sat infront of you his eyes would gloss over, he'd fidget, check his phone/watch and make a quick retreat. i could be wrong but i've seen that in my h when i tried to 'get thru to him"

i have to believe they just aren't ready to deal with what has happened, little bit of denial.