Hiya, everyone.I am back from CT. Mostly a good trip.
Except for S6 and parts of that let's-go-home scenario and subsequent discussion, it sounds like it was great!
Originally Posted By: brownidmon
Number 1- it is not your decision when we leave, it should be our decision. Honestly, we had driven my car there and the thought did cross my mind to take the boys and leave, but I thought better of it because it would have been me acting purely out of anger.(good for you.) Number 2) I feel embarrassed and disrespected when you speak to me like that in front of other people. You weren't even looking at me when you were talking to me.
Nicely done, bim.
Originally Posted By: brownidmom
H tried to bring up the fact that none of his decisions have anything to do with me anymore and that he no longer takes the time to factor me in.
Ouch! Heartless.
Originally Posted By: brownidmom
I simply said that I am aware of his selfishness and have seen many examples of it over the last few years, but that I also know that one day, sooner or later, he would know that his beliefs about me are bull-oney... End of convo- BIM: " I believe and know that you will figure it all out, whether near or from far away isn't the issue anymore. But you will know that you are wrong about many of your beliefs about me and the actions you have taken being a result of your issues, not mine" .And then...I let it go... I have a tendency to get emotional during these conversations and let myself get very upset. I. AM. DONE. WITH. THAT.
BraVO, bim. Standing O for you!
Originally Posted By: brownidmom
Gardener, I believe I was having my discussion around your exit last night.
Maybe I was close enough to be your "Gardening Angel" (ouch)
Hey, bim: where are you from, anyway (if'n I may inquire)?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
