Divorced and want to reconcile...

[dday101798]

Mar,

TRUST ME, he was probably darting for that car door like a scared child, been there done that. I wouldn't put too much into that or the "chick", probably yet another test, hence the referrals to the good time you both shared.

Maybe I shouldin't give advice because my head is so far up my rear it's not even funny. I just spent half the day with my boys and XW, yes, XW. She finally accepted and went to dinner, and the whoel holiday weekend has been, well, very emotional, very potentious, and well, just flat out, HELL YEAH!

I even had to endure a half hour conversation of how things have been going south between XW and OM, but guess what, for some dang reason, other than when I dropped them off and XW invited me in, did I not even THINK of them together.

I don't know, Mar, you have hope. My situationlooked so friggen hopeless it wasn't even funny and yet, I held my XW's hand for the first time in ages for I can't even describe how long, and when it was all said and done, we hugged for the first time in almost a year.

Thus, if I still have hope, anyone on this board does, you just need faith, and use the one on one interactions to read them and know if they are still there. I swear, I regarded XW as dead, and now I know (and professed to her) she IS still alive, and she knows where my heart is.