Happy to see you posting back again, and hope you find some peace when she is out.
These are tough weeks ahead with holidays, I find myself actively wishing my STBXW is miserable, and that is not a good place to be, I know, so keep watch for thoughts along those lines. I feel your in a better spot than me, in that respect, so don't think you'll have those issues.
Wishing you well man!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."