stages of mlc? can anyone help me here?

[peacetoday]

Hi and welcome
sorry for your pain
your H seeems to fit the signs of mlc
read the rosourses
read others threads, you will gain lots of information about the crises
it takes time
a few points
watch the finances..just keep your eye on the bank accounts, credit cards ect
make sure bills are being paid for

no Relationship talks
say nothing as hard as it is
if he complains, listen, do not defend yourself
validate him as much as possible
try to focus on taking car of yourself and the kids
C is very helpful

keep poting
you will get support and information every step of the way
patience
this takes a long time so as you stand for your M work on yourself
good luck
peace