Realize that no matter how much you try to pull him to you, all it will do is make him want to escape. Write him a letter, telling him everything that you did this weekend, the funny things, the sad things, how your sisters kid was a pain, how you ate too many cranberries and the wine was awful, all of it, get everything out, whatever happened tell him all of it. And then dont send it.
Burn it, tear it up, get rid of it. I wrote A LOT of letters early in my sitch, and it helped. Keep coming on here and journaling.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
