So sorry to hear of that NC. I never drop off or pick up the kids at X's unless I'm 100% certain he (and OW) aren't there. We have a halfway point we meet at (a dollar store) where we drop off and pick up the kids. Prevents that kind of stuff. I'm sure I don't want to see OW, and he won't want to see me with a BF ever either. That introduction was weird, after 12 years, how strange!!!
You did take the high road. I'm not surprised. I don't know if I would have been able to.
I haven't been through that yet, it seems like it would be very difficult. How thoughtless she doesn't share some cookies for you and your boys also from what you were saying? How very unChristmas-like....
