First Timer

[ClingingToHope]

My W has serious emotional issues as well and I thought she wasn't looking to hook up with someone else. But then she was spotted at the county fair with one guy, another on FaceBook has been sending her messages to go out and she's been googling an ex boyfried who now is a doctor 90 minutes away.

Several months ago she assured there was no one else. She said it wasn't that she didn't want me, she didn't want anyone.

So I was shocked at each of these discoveries. Look, once they get in WAW mode they are pretty far gone and in their heads the M is over and they are going to start looking around. They may or may not act on it, it depends on the circumstance.

In my case, if that ex boyfriend was here and available on a night she was out with her divorcee buddies then a PA would happen right away. It's almost a conceptual affair -- the dream of the supposed perfect man -- that I'm competing against.

So I wouldn't be too sure of anything about your W right now.