You are all correct. So far I have been in a semi-dark state with her which led to various gray areas. I now see that isn't the best way to go.

Not so much stubborn as unsure. Much clearer picture now. Not really trying to make her do anything, just trying to state a new and positive attitude. Last few weeks have been overwhelmingly difficult for me and I am just trying to inject new energy into my situation.

Me-47
WAW-42
D-16
S-14
M-22 yrs
T-19 yrs
ILYBNILWY-3 years ago.
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