I never listed the amount I am getting, only that ex wants to drop it to 400.00 a month which is way lower than what I am getting. When the judge heard this amount she nearly choked so I don't think it will go as low as ex wishes. It was so evident in court how selfish he is and that he does not wish to properly sustain his children.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
You know what is so weird. Ex moved into another house with other woman. Everything is a secret with me, he has not given me his address and he told the kids not to tell me it.
What is that about?
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting dont worry about it, my ex didnt tell me his temporary address when he left and he was there for 6 months allegedly before moving in with the then ow, he then moved in with her and it was only when the solicitors letters were flying at me that I discovered his address, to this date ex as never told me them or home phone numbers, it is all a coffuffle in their lives. Having said that when I moved out I didnt disclose my new address but it took ex or wifey less than a month to find out where we were, its a case of its okay for them to not let you know anything about them but they want to know things about you
this secrecy must be a common link among the mlcer My xh didnt tell me he was getting M he still has Never told the kids..they dont know he is M I might have to tell them before they find out some other way so unless they re ashamed why not tell peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
T, My XH has just moved house this weekend. My S17 lives with him and so I sent him an email gently reminding him that whilever my son is living under his roof he has an obligation to keep me informed of the address. As your children visit and stay with your XH regularly perhaps you could do the same.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Cagz, thanks for asking, no word yet from the judge. I am dying not knowing how much income I will have every month. I am staying positive though and having faith that the judge saw past his bs. Bills keep coming in though
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
