Stu, now you need to go back to your hard and fast DBing. You followed most of the rules, and even though you went into the R talk, you didnt botch that either.

They say that the very first step is to reestablish your friendship with her. Her being emotional about it is a good sign, and shes probably saying all those "This doesnt change anything" types of thing to hear herself say it out loud, just as much as shes saying it for you to hear it. To remind herself.

So now that you have TOLD her what your going to do, and how you have changed- keep it up, and SHOW her that you have changed.

Im sure that it made her think, and Im sure that it wasnt a very restful night for you either, but overall, good job.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...