One thing I do not think I did well in the M was show appreciation. So wouldn't showing appreciation be a 180?
Lots of us didn't show appreciation in the marriage. But, now is not the time to do what you're asking about. It will be seen as pursuing by her. So, don't do it.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
