You all have me on a roll now! I'm talking about two different things and should clearify in case you didn't understand. But, I get myself in trouble by not keeping my mouth closed when I spout off about something.......aNd usually it is about somebody else. He can't stand to hear me say anything negative about another person, and that's why I said it wins me no Brownie points. I think it started when I wanted him to be in my corner about certain issues or people, and when he wouldn't say anything...then I'd open my mouth aNd say something negative hoping he'd agree. Never happened. You'd think I would have learned, but then it turned into a nasty habit...
The other things I was referring to was how we should talk to our H's about our needs (especially in bed) or how we want something done (humm.....again, especially in bed), or what makes us happy (......okay I'll stop).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
