He makes some really hurtful comments. And, I just look at him. And, he says... "Maybe I'm mistaken?". Me. Silence. H... "Huh? Do ya think?". I replied, "Yep."
Um.. instead of the "Yep" could you try something like this next time: MF: "Do you really want to know what I think?" .. ask this in a curious tone, not angry, not aggressive. H : Whatever his answer is... MF: "I think you've got a lot on your mind and you're frustrated. You're trying to hold it in until you sort it out but it's not working. I know its not working because you're taking it out on me. That's not fair and you know it. -- then cut the conversation, get up and do something else. Let him think about it.
MF, can you share what the hurtful comments were?
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
