stages of mlc? can anyone help me here?

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I believe mt h was triggered 3+ years ago when his father took a heart attack and went through a quadruple by pass.

we have both suffered through it since then...symptoms actions and reactions getting worse until 8/09 when he left.

all i get out of him is that he is unhappy, needs to regain himself,needs a bit of space, cant do this anymore, cant live like this anymore...nothing specific

I have been in therapy for almost a year, for myself as well as family and marriage.

h was dx as having low testosterone 2 1/2 months ago,also talked about mlc and depression with dr.
he cant take a/d now due to the low t. does use androgel...replacement therapy.

his emotions are mixed as well as his signals to me involving myself or our marriage.he'll stay for days ans things will be fine...then at dinner he is ready to divorce...i dont get it.

i could really use some guidance. i have also picked up a copy of dr...i need to detach...at this time of year, with 2 small children, it is next to impossible!

please help!