Ok, I have much work to do. I really want to put the work in, as I know in the long run, I will be a better person for it.
Keep that in focus, SD. She may stay in the M, she may not. Whatever she does, there YOU are. Work to be in the sweet spot which is no matter what she does, you are fine. You'd like to keep your family and marriage together and make it better, but is she won't participate and contribute, you are moving forward in life.
Don't react to her.
Keep coming here.
Cheers ~ Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08