About my sitch--yesterday WH picked up our baby to take him over there, came back, gave him a bath and left. Usually he hangs out longer! Here is a boring recap:
He told me that he fed him baby food (over there). For some reason this bugged me and he could tell. He asked if I was okay to which I replied yes! Then I asked him casually when his day off was next week and did he want to get the tree then. Sounds good.
He asked if it was fine if he helped me take the decorations out today instead of yesterday, then left.
He sent a text around 7:30 last night asking if our baby was still stuffed up. I replied and he sent one back saying "you guys have a good night" I replied "okey dokey you too"
Okay so this is silly but please let me know what you think
Today I will be deflating the mattress in the spare bedroom to make room for some stuff that I have to move out of the living room. This is the bed he originally took to his apartment, brought back when he was staying here after our son's birth, and I assume would be sleeping in it for awhile if we R.
Good or bad to remove the bed or neutral?
We also have stuff in the office that he keeps saying he needs to move...but hasn't, along with 99% of his other things.
I guess I am worried that I will be encouraging him to start to move the stuff and then finish the D paperwork.
thoughts please???
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004