Jstar, Wow--he is totally enmeshed with his parents. Is there some middle ground or shall I ask...what is the most you are willing to put up with regarding his family? I don't think it's realistic to expect him to cut them out, you know?
How is NC going? Did you say you have done it before? Do you think your H believes you will keep it?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
