Bobby...if you must THINK..to do things in advance....to have some sort of effect on your W, then, you have a lot of work to do on yourself.

Stop doing things to bring about a reaction from your W. Read what sandi2 wrote.

Start doing things FOR YOU!!!! Do things because you WANT to do them. Go places because you WANT to go there. Speak to your W when you WANT to speak with her. Don't when you don't want to.

Your way of doing it, right now, won't work. Live for you.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;