WCW..that's a deal..PMA. Cold? I think Montgomery was in the late 40's lol. Not cold by Long Island terms but in the south I was surprised.

Last week, our son asked me to see if we could connect his XBox to the internet to play against his friends (XBox Live). We read the manuals. I have an unused router upstairs. We did it together while I taught him about routers, internet, connections , etc. Later that evening, in front of the kids, STBXW asked me what a TV was doing up in the office (our old 1993 TV)? She created a scene when told about our project. She told S9 'No...this wasn't discussed with me' and crushed our son. She blamed her response to him on me....that not talking about it with her was wrong.

Today, my son told my STBXW to "stop ordering him around".

I don't bask in this...I'm just sad that she can't "see it". What others have said here about shooting oneself in the foot, I think, is starting to show signs of occurring.

To all....this Thursday, Dec. 03, is the first date of trial. This has been thrust upon me. Not even sure HOW we are going to pay for this. I"m sure there will be some pre-trial stuff where the judge urges a resolution beforehand. Knowing STBXW, she has dragged out ALL prior legal things, will not listen to any judge and push this thru. I will do my best to keep my head up, stay cool and present things honestly without malice. Sadly, the system is stacked against me and I'm SURE my STBXW is going to try and shred me in front of the court AND she will have her whole family there including (I bet), her brother in his robes.

Thanks for all your support through the years. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;