The fact that he admits he is ashamed of his behavior is true growth. I would be elated with this. He acknowledges all your hard work in raising your children, how wonderful. Slow and steady, you are handling this so well.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11