Perhaps your ex has difficulty seeing his aunt in ill health, it reminds him of his mortality. They are such cowards with this. My ex bailed right after his mother died and my mother was diagnosed with cancer. Really, these guys are very emotionally weak and hide under a facade of confidence. They are truly cowards.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11