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I think I should write something about the truck and what effect it would have on the boys and their time with me. Thoughts?????

She doesn't care, right now, what effect it would have on the boys and their time with you! You are dealing with a different person, right now, than the one you've known all these years. I think the response that Greek advised you to give is best. Do what you said you were gonna do, and don't back down. If she does what she says she's gonna do, then you're just gonna have to deal with the repercussions. Be strong. Hard consequences are the only things that are gonna get her attention right now, and even then, there's a possibility they won't change her mind. She's also pissed because you decided to take some action, instead of letting her call all the shots...know this...letting her call all the shots will not be in your best interests. Listen to puppy and Greek.