Spent the weekend together. Tuesday he is flying to Cape Town. Comes back on Sunday, has an apt with the doc on Monday.
The weekend was ok. We actually went couch shopping, didnt buy anything, but went and looked around. Sometimes we feel like the old times. Before any of this [censored] happened.
We are taking things slowly between us. That's for sure. But there is a warmth from his side I havent felt for years. And when we talk, he listens. He validates me, he asks questions. When he gets upset, he quickly goes back to restraining himself and explains why he gets upset. All that are different.
Last night we went to some friends and when I sat beside him, he put his arms on my shoulders. When we went to bed I told him the most important and nice thing he did all day was that gesture and he was surprised. I wanted to point out that it's not BIG things that make the difference for me. I think he got the message.
Today I tried a new receipe with beef, beer, plums, honey, onions... It was wonderful. He must have said at least 6 times how great it tasted K
