Puppy, Greek, I'm working at this. I am focusing on key words and phrases, and the whole detachment part. I am getting there. I have also cut and pasted so much information from here, I am going to print everything out, and run through scenarios that I know will come up. This stuff is hard work, but I am determined to give it everything I have. That's the only way I know how to live life. Kinda have to, in my line of work!!! I am concerned about the visit too. There is so many things running through my mind. My main focus, is not her, rather, it is my boys, and spending every second with them count. If that leaves her feeling better about me, that is a bonus. Believe me folks, I am trying!!!


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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