Greek, we still have a joint account, and will for one more month. The reason for that is, I don't have all the account numbers, accounts, addresses etc, that I need in order to take the bills over myself. I am going to do that when I get back for the 2 weeks, and then it will be closed. She has a really bad habit of overdrawing the account, getting a advance for a small fee. This has been going on for a long time-yes I know, I should have set a boundary. She has always paid all the bills, and handled the account. Well, no more. My paycheck has been routed into my bank account, and I will transfer just enough funds to cover the bills to the joint account-just for this month. Yes, I will ensure she pays all the bills, and if she doesn't, I have a contingency plan to take care of them. Thanks.


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"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
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Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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