Lastly, Robx, you asked me what has changed? What did I do to kill the attraction? In my honest opinion, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!! I'm not the problem. Since all of the problems began with my family I believe that I have become a better husband and person. My wife has been physically attacked, diagnosed with depression, sexually assaulted, and blessed with a hyper autistic child. She has suffered so much (we both have) over the years and I believe that she has just cracked mentally. I believe that she has become overwhelmed with everything that has happened. Throughout this ordeal I have had to be mother, father, provider, cook, cleaner, doctor, therapist and friend. And I think that I have done a very good job. So if I appear to be clingy, needy and insecure it is probably because I am tired, worried, hurt and desperate and trying to make sense out of a crazy situation that I did not cause and have had no control over. So what did I do to kill the attraction? Probably the opposite of what most guys what have done by now, I have stayed by my wife's side through thick and thin and tried my best to be there for her.
And yet your wife is looking to leave you and possibly hook up with someone else?
Hmmmm.....
You've done absolutely nothing?!
Well if that's the case, you'd be the first on this site.
