Sandi. I tried to not cover for my W. Friday night she took off to study and the kids were not happy. W said she would be back just going to get a coffee and study at Starbucks for a bit. So the kids were sad and hungry. So we went out and ate at their favorite place. The kept insisting on calling their mom to get her to come. We I broke down and let them call her. She did not answer.

Come to find out at midnight when she got home that she left her phone home. That never happens. Truely unheard of as my W is attached to it all day long. She was mad yesterday and said she wants us to tell the kids what is going on and for us both to come up with a schedule for seeing the kids on the weekends. It just keeps getting better. I told her I am trying to focus on the kids having fun at this time of year. Also focused on my Dr's appts. That has fallen off the W Ctually cares wagon at this point. As she said it "I am sure it is nothing. You will get through this with no problem.". This sickness messes with her plans. She wanted to tell the kids this week about us sliting up and decide our schedule for visiting family for Xmas. Holly insanity batman. Really...tell a 9 & 6 yr old that we are seperating 1 month before Xmas?