Mandy, I'm sorry to see that he's still acting like a butt. I really don't know what to say about his behavior towards his aunt. The poor woman has been his rock for a long time and to turn against her now makes me wonder just what is going through his head. When he comes up for air again, he'll contact her....they are users and when the need should arise, he'll be there on her door step just as if nothing ever happened.
I hope that your son is feeling better soon. I think you are right about one thing....he didn't want to take your son to rugby. It was very evident by the phone calls that life is still all about him. What a butt!
They really do become the opposite of what they were pre-MLC. It's a shame that they've missed out on what is important in life, but the time will come and go and it can never be restored to them. It's their loss. Enjoy the time you share w/your son. That time is priceless.
Hugs to you and your son!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.