Exh says he wants to start doing more with baby and I to see where it goes. Nice words. Do I believe it? Probably not.
Last night we ended up doing our usual bet on a football game we bet on every year. He asked what the bet was. I couldn't think of anything so asked him. Then the conversation turned a bit personal and I said there was no way I would consider anything personal if he is still with married gf or anyone else. He said its over...blah, blah blah. I did say I have heard that before. So I decided on a shoulder rub if I won because he gives really good ones....and I won! Thankfully!!! When he told me what he wanted (which is what he always bet anyway so it was no surprise) I said it was out of the question even if the gf was gone. Not going there with him. I probably wont even get my shoulder rub either
How nice it would be to believe him. To believe he is a changed man. To believe he is getting help for his problems. But I know different. Still makes it sad though.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
