Robs. Thanks. To start at the bottom of your post... No we r not intimate. We haven't been for 5 months. She lives in a seperate bedroom. So to update.. As usual my wife lied and I called her in it. She got angry and pushed the seperation thing. She ranted for a few minutes and I just listened. Took in all the info. She then calmed down. When this happens all the "real" reasons come out. Can't get past this that and the other thing that happened in our ancient past. This time she brought out the "wish she would haves". There were some nuggets or interest. It clearly showed me what a mess she is.
She said a couple of odd things. Sometimes she thinks we could work through all this crazy stuff. She sees what changes I have made. And knows they were for me not her. She said a few other things similar. Then she said she knows I will find and amazing woman. She knows I won't make any of the mistakes we made and that I will be a great partner. When she thinks that she does not feel jealous. So how could she still have marriage feelings towards me if she doesn't feel jelousy.
Well two weeks ago I have a FB ordeal like you discribed. A few goofy connections from a couple of good looking women. She found out and sat with me to go through all my women friends on FB. Used my daughter as the excuse. That a few of them posted questionable content and my daughter asked her about them. She then pointed out a picture I had taken with a ring girl at an MMA outing. She was so mad. Again she used my daughter as the excuse. Anyway I think that proves out your point.
W approached me and asked if Ixcoild check her back for zits. She pulled down her robe to he waist and laid inky floor. That went on for about 40 minutes. Then she asked if she could do mine. She rubbed my back etc for about 45 minutes. That hadn't happened in 5 months. She mentioned during our discussion that we have such a deep friendship. And that iswhIg she could wax my back and we could check eachothers backs etc etc. Just too bizare.
Right now I am struggling with "do I want to turn this around or not". I know in most cases this is nothing. Most people are still sleeping together and the Was still wants out. It is all just so insane.
