Ok, so H just came back from a trip. We were not expecting to see him this weekend. He calls shortly after arriving to say he has some gifts for kids and wants to drop them off. He comes over to give them gifts and has a gift for me as well. A bottle of perfume! ??? I thanked him and sprayed some on right then and there (even though perfume makes me nauseous!). He's very generous and has given me gifts before for no reason - camera, computer, stuff like that that I kind of needed. I don't know what to make of this.

No talk of D. I'm completely boggled, but then again, totally dismissing this as nothing because things could go either way.

What should I be looking for in reconnection phase, if this is that???