well folks this guy is still well out to lunch so to speak, it is now 4 weeks and he hasnt contacted his elderley disabled housebound aunt, not even checked if she has tablets, shopping or anything, also son as been really ill and hes managed 2 phonecalls not really asking about sons health, but asking if he was going to his rugby, I do know that it worked in exs favour if son wasnt going to rugby as there was an event he could attend if not being burdened with son, again all about himself. This man as completely changed, it is a fact he is the complete opposite of what he was, he is now cold callous and disgusting in his behaviour to the only two blood realatives he as left. his aunt is distraught she says that after 47 years being there for ex and being really close she cannot believe that he as just desserted her in her years of need, I told her that she is experiencing just the same as he as done to myself and most of all his son. what a shambles this guy as made of his life, his guilt and shame must be to the limit. anyways on with life im going out for a meal and a few drinkies today. lol