we havne't really spoken in days. the last time i brought up the birth he hung up on me. i'm sure its a very sensitive spot for him something about hispanic men and births of their sons.

he totally blew off one of the consequences i set. i gave him 2 times to show up, to pick up the rest of his things. last time we spoke he said he would come on such and such day and never showed. i know it had to do with what i was texting him. i wasn't nice and i know i hurt him. my d and i went to the backyard and starting cleaning it up but just got so overwhelmed with all his stuff there, me not being able to move or pick it up, we just went inside.

for me at this time i do want him to be there as my husband and family, not just because i'm the mother of his children. it will kill me for him to be there for the birth then rush off back to his normal single life.

Last edited by Jstar; 11/29/09 05:23 AM.
Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline