Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[Jstar]

i've done the mom talking to before but we are at such ends that i am not even allowed to step foot in her house. they hate me that much and have alterior motives. as long as my h is there she sees him as a way out finincially. she mentioned to him when he first left she wants to rent a house of course with my h because he has always been the one child out of 6 to continue to support them. my father in law is allowed to work in the usa but is not skilled, not a go getter and prefers to use my h has his crutch. mother in law is illegal never worked in her life and just kisses her husbands ass.

with my h at their 2 bd aprtment with 3 adults and 1 child he is a built in husband substitute for her and provides them with money. i've tried to explain to him that there will never be anything i could do "right" in her eyes. that his parents have a different plan for him, me not in the picture and will continue to put those things in his ears.

i used to try to not find fault in his mother because ultimately it is my h who chooses to accept to do things for her. thus why i always believe he chooses them over me.