Puppy - I am up in Canada so I don't know what equipment/methods are legal and/or available to me. Guess I got a little researching to do.

I am against keyloggers as H is super computer savvy - I don't know his admin pswds on his computers. Plus, I think most of his email correspondence is via his ipod. (like I mentioned, he now has a pswd on it and I can't figure it out).

I so wish I was still working at my old job b/c I would have access to his cell records. And I would have looked even though it was breach of the company ethics/privacy standards.