I had a naughty D18, but this takes the cake. Your D needs to be put over someone's knee and spanked!! Your W, WORSE!
Ok, here's my recommendation...
Get your D back to your house, take her phone and her internet access and tell her she will earn these things back (tell her how). Tell her she is to stay in YOUR home, and will not be allowed to be picked up by her mom until all of this drama has ENDED. Ground her little butt, and don't give in!
I feel bad for your S. How old is he?
You will get NO WHERE with this group, until you LEAD.
Holy cow.
I feel for you.
Keep venting! But get that teenager in line before you have a drug addicted pregnant D!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.