Just Decided!

[wolverine1997]

After a long night of thinking I've come to a very important decision. I have decided that I am not getting a divorce. I am going to save my marriage! Now my wife doesn't know anything about this and I'm sure that she isn't in agreement with it. But forget her and and she wants! I am going to do whatever I need to work things out. Problem is I'm not sure of what I need to do right now. So any suggestions that you guys have will be greatly appreciated.

The first thing that I think I need to do is change my approach. I have been doing two things, trying to GAL and also going along with my wife's plan. I have GAL by going to gym, working, hanging out with buddies, going on vacations, shopping, etc. This has not sparked any interest out of my wife at all. I will continue doing this for my own benefit but not with the goal of attracting her. I have followed my wife's plan by giving her her space and freedom. She only talks to me if it is important or about the kids. She shows not interest or concern for me at all. She completely ignores me at home and will not speak when coming in or leaving the house. She become irritated with any conversation that I initiate. I have gone along with this and have tried not to pursue her or bother her. I will call her if it is late and she is still out or call home to talk to her when I work midnights just to see how everything is. Other than that I will only call her if it is important. Maybe I should change my approach. What do you all think? What should I try?

I just decided that I am not getting a divorce. Not I just have to make her come to the same decision.