One part of me want to file Monday morning while the other part of me just wants to stall all of this. At the end of the day, my W is long gone...there's no use anymore...I know it...I give up trying to save this marriage. I'm the type of person that prefers to "rip off the bandaid with one quick motion" if you know what I mean.
I'm having all kinds of problems with this as well. My W is the one who wants out of the M so she should file. But I've been out of the house 6 1/2 months, she said a month ago she'd be "filing soon" and I haven't seen any paperwork.
Others on the board have told me that if the WAW is the one who wants the D then she should have to do all the work. Of course, that may leave you in limboland. Then you have to ask yourself are you really done?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6