Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[bluerain]

Hi soldierdad! Good morning (?) Antlers is right, on all counts, including the last bit!

Is it ok with you for the boys to be home alone overnight? That seems like a pretty reasonable boundary, Esp if they dont even know that shes not there! 40 y/o women dont pull all nighters! It doesnt seem right to me, but I dont have kids...