1) Pick a spot outside a fancy restaurant for the drop off point. 2) Get yourself dressed REAL smart, sassy and elegant to make it look like you're going to the restaurant. 3) Collect the kid from him there. Say, "Thanks, I can take it from here." or something similar. Cut all other communication with, "I don't have time for this right now. You can leave." and you wait for him to leave. 4) Leave or not: take the kid and go into the restaurant. Ask to use the bathroom, then for a glass of water or something. Try stay there for as long as possible and then leave.
This will BLOW his mind because he won't know if you're having lunch with someone or if you've just had lunch...
NO. NO. NO...
This is NOT how it is done. If you are trying to make your husband curious you don't do it by being obvious. This is too obvious and could backfire. When a WS (which is how you want to act) is acting distant they don't tell you to bring the kids to the place they are meeting the OW. They do things like change plans and tell you they can't pick them up or some other excuse. They do NOT take the risk to meet you where the OP is likely to be. Please don't get so caught up in this that you start doing things that will blow the whole concept.
Don't go overboard or this will backfire. To make a man curious you have to be more subtle. You have to make him WONDER where you are going. WONDER why you are dressed up and ready to go out when he drops off the kids or when you pick them up from HIS place.
If you make this too obvious it will backfire. He has to think you are HIDING something. Keep your cards close to the vest. You don't show your cards in a poker game.
YES. Create mystery. Don't try to FORCE it though. Just be mysterious as the opportunity arrives. Make plans to be busy. All these things are good. You have to follow through on this new effort you are doing. You handled things great today. Keep it up and get even better at it.
